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5 Positive Outlooks Towards Your Sexual Desire


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Sexual anticipation in a positive mindset can be one of the most potent turn on you could possibly experience; however, sexual anticipation that is viewed negatively is just as potent, but will quickly blow out that sexual flame. It’s unnecessary, then, to imply that sexual desire can, and will, make or break great sexual encounters. Indeed, the leading reason couples in long-term relationships stop having sex is because of a lack of sexual desire.

 

Let’s describe what sexual desire is; it is the thoughts and feelings you have toward sexual encounters with your lover – good or bad.

Do you recall how you felt back when you were in the blushes of a new relationship? You would long to touch, see, smell your lover, then rip their clothes off and have wild romp in the hay. In preparing for these sexual encounters by spending a large amount of time positively anticipating the encounter, by the time you were with the object of your desire, you would be aroused in an instant. In comparison with the thoughts and feelings you have today, what is the difference? For many women, the anticipation and “foreplay” becomes days of dread, walking around uneasily, and puzzling over when sexual intimacy will finally be initiated.

 

Then, when things are initiated, you are not instantly aroused as you once were, in fact, it probably takes twice as long (if it will happen at all), because you are caught up in your negative thoughts and feelings, the anxiety of waiting for sex; this then makes you unable to concentrate on the positive, pleasurable intimacy you so long for. Most women need around 10 to 15 minutes to loosen up and become aroused; strangely enough, this is about the same length of an average encounter of a sexual nature. All of a sudden, the moment is over, and you haven’t had time to actually enjoy yourself; even if you did experience an orgasm, it can induce a stronger feeling of resentment towards any sexual act that may occur in the future.

 

And there you have it, you find yourself in a sexual rut, and you just keep digging deeper every time you and your lover perform sexual acts. In order to turn this around, bringing the excitement back to your sex life, it is of utmost importance to start building up positive outlooks towards your sexual encounters.

 

Sadly, if a couple in a long-term relationship has gone many a year not expressing to each other their feelings and thoughts towards this situation, the foundation of a more positive view towards sex will be very difficult, especially for those women who tend to hang on to anger, and hold grudges for years. But there is no need to worry, this situation can be fixed with time and work.

 

Because sex is shared between the two of you, it is both of your responsibilities to make an equal effort, and push forwards to find the spark that was there when you married. The following are five suggestions to help you begin this journey to renewing your sex lives:

 

1. Great Sex Should Start Out of The Bedroom

A little romance, affection, intimacy, and touch during your everyday activities can go an incredibly long way to help a couple easily shift back into the bedroom. Make it your mission to enjoy 10 affectionate and intimate instant throughout your day, every day.

 2. Discuss Sex in a Positive Way

Be mindful of the ways in which you talk about sex with each other. Start making a point to be flirty, fun, and sexy in your every day conversation – maybe discuss the possibility of a future intimate encounter – which can be a fantastically simple way to make both your feelings about sex with each other a fun, and enticing idea again.

 

3. Decide To Plan Fun Sex, In Turns

Most people in long-term relationships tend to decide on sex without a particular plan, resulting in the same sex you’ve been having for ages. They say variety is the spice of life; well, your sex life is included! Changing things up will send sexual desire into overdrive. In a level relationship, where you both take on equal amounts of responsibility to keep the relationship happy, it’s only fitting that you should take turns planning out sexual adventures.

What you end up deciding on doing doesn’t have to be earth-shattering, some well-placed candles, luxurious massage oils, or relaxing in a delicious bath together can break up the monotony just as well as something doing something incredibly adventurous.

 

4. Know What You Want Out Of Your Sex Life and Talk With Your Partner About It

Helping your partner know how to plan a sexy evening that you will enjoy is as easy as sitting down and talking to them about what it is that you would like to experience in your intimate encounters. A fabulous idea is for the both of you to write out a wish list of sexy, sensual things you would like to do, and exchange the lists. Just knowing simply what your partner wants, and them knowing what you want that you may have never discussed could be enough to get you going right then and there.

 

5. Plan An Evening Completely Around Your Partner

Spoil your partner with a night dedicated to their enjoyment. You can do this every few months for each other. When you show this kind of care and devotion to your partner’s happiness, it will continue to add to the foundation of your relationship, making it that much stronger, as the feelings between you will continue to be fond over time. Try teasing them, and hint at what it is you’re planning for them days ahead.

Creating sexual desires in a positive, fun light needn’t be difficult or complex, even though it takes time and effort, you can clearly see the effects positive anticipation of sex can completely turn your sex life around.

 

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