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Great Strategies To Map Out a New Sex Life


 

 

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Today, we’re going to talk about how to start fresh. You’ve already read the series of articles, and

now you’re ready to put them into action. You have a bunch of ideas swimming around in your head,

a new perspective, and now you want it all to become a reality; but you find yourself held back by

the same old patterns of your relationship, and that you’re scared you may relent and return to

them for good. You may also be embarrassed to begin communicating to your spouse about where

you would like your sex life to go from here. The following are some great strategies for mapping

out that new sex life you want, and getting yourselves off to a fresh start:

1. Talk to Your Partner


Have you sat down with them and really had a good hashing out of

what you’d like for your relationship? Have you tried to tell your

wife that you want to feel more intimate with her? If you want to

change your sex life for the better, you have to take this 

seemingly big step of talking to her about it.

We have to understand the difference between being embarrassed about talking about sex, and

being scared because sex has caused conflict in the past, and we’re worried our partner won’t 

take us seriously, or may assume that we have negative motives.

You cannot control how another person thinks or reacts; but you can begin the conversation and

be truthful. If they don’t react well, resist the urge to defend what you’re saying. Let them speak,

especially in situations where there’s been hurt in the past. Just remember to share what’s in

your heart too.

 

2. Say Sorry For Any Hurt You’ve Caused

It’s absolutely necessary to acknowledge when we have caused hurt to our partner. When I was

first married to my husband, we hurt each other; I hurt him by withholding sex, or by accusing him

of wanting it too much. He hurt me by not considering my feelings, and not taking things more

slowly. At the time, when we were in the midst of this conflict, we could not see that either of us

was doing anything wrong at all. All we could do was know how much the other person hurt us.

Take a look at yourself and see if you are doing things in spite of your partner. Be honest with

yourself. Even if your partner did something really hurtful, like have an affair, or use pornography,

ask yourself: was I keeping sex from him? Was I being fair to him before he hurt me? I’m not

trying to say that you are completely to blame for your spouse’s wrongdoings, not one bit! But it

is imperative that we really look to see if we have anything to apologize for ourselves. Then you

just have to be plain about it, no beating around the bush.

 

3. Forgiving Each Other

 

If your spouse has hurt you by demanding that you do things sexually that you didn’t want to do,

or having a lack of patience, withholding sex, whatever it is, choose to forgive them. Tell your

spouse that they hurt you, and how, then confess to what you have done.

Now, the both of you should choose to put it all behind you, completely. I had to do this in my own

marriage, I had to say, “I don’t have the right to hold this against you anymore,” or else we could

have never moved forward. Every time we had an argument about sex, everything from the past

would be drudged up, then we couldn’t solve anything. So we had to forgive each other for past

transgressions once and for all, it is in the past.

 

 

4. Gain a New Perspective of Your Spouse

Now that you’ve settle all slights against each other, really commit to

see each other in a different light. Maybe you’ve always had a nagging

feeling that your wife doesn’t really want you. Maybe you’re not sure

whether or not she’s ever had an orgasm with you. You need to put

these doubts and fears behind you both.

If your spouse tells you that  they want to start over, believe them! Don’t try to doubt their motives,

and try to act as if you’re starting all over again, rediscovering what it is that brought you two

together in the first place.

Picture this: a wife realizes that she’s been holding back sex from her husband. She wants to change

things. At the same time, he’s been holding back affection because he isn’t feeling loved. They both

tell this to each other, then resolve to move past this together. They are now both excited to move

forward together!

For a few nights, things are fantastic. Then one night, she’s too tired and has a bit of a headache.

She just wants to go to sleep. He thinks, “oh wonderful, we’re not getting anywhere. She said she

wanted things to change, but she’s back to her usual tricks. This is never going to last.” He gets

angry. She knows that he’s upset, and she thinks, “he doesn’t care that I’ve worked hard all week,

and just need a good sleep. Sex is really the only thing he can think about!” And then they’re back 

to their old ways.

If your spouse has told you they want things to change, then from that point onward, see them

through that perspective, not the old ones. If she’s said to you she wants things to be different,

and things are becoming better, then a few nights here and there that she has a headache, or is

really tired, shouldn’t be a big deal for you. If you let yourself obsess about what happened in

the past, then it will be a big deal. So view them in that different light, and believe in the best

of them.

 

5. Switch It Up

The last point is easier to do if you are actually changing what the two of you do in the bedroom.

I suggested you both take fifteen minutes to reawaken your body by letting him just touch you,

then you just touch him? It’s actually a great exercise to do every once in a while, and when

you’re starting over again, it’s good to do it A LOT! It really helps for you both to discover, and

rediscover things about each other, and it also helps you to not just do the “usual” by either

jumping straight for sex, or by touching each other in ways which you thought were pleasurable

to the other person, but which actually are not. Getting things going in new and different ways,

reacquainting yourselves with the other’s body as if doing so for the first time, helps you both

to trust each other when you are trying out something new.

Then jump right in to doing those new things! If you’ve both tended to make love in a specific way,

try something different. Do it in a different position, different room, different time of day. It

doesn’t matter how you change things up, just change things so it feels new and exciting. Don’t

allow yourselves to get back into thinking there are negative motives behind the other’s actions.

You need to build up the trust, especially where there’s been conflict in the past, and you need to

put it behind you. Shake things up so that you both know this is a new chapter in your book. You’re

walking down a new path now, with different scenery, and this is a fantastic thing!

I received an email recently from a woman who has not had sex since her youngest child was born

quite a while ago. She realizes that this is not good, and she wants to create an intimate and

sexual marriage again. But how does she change this situation around? And how often should they

have sex now, since they haven’t in quite some time?

 

What I would answer is that they don’t make any judgements based

on what’s happened in the past. Do not even consider the past. Just

think of what an intimate sex life should look like. Think of how you

want to be together, and then do exactly that! It may feel awkward,

especially if sex has been out of the game for a while.

Just concentrate on what’s ahead of you both, not what’s behind you.

 

If it helps, look to God and ask Him to show you what your new love life could be, and travel

towards that vision. Don’t allow yourselves to be held back by what you’ve done and encountered

in the past.

 

6. Giving Grace to Each Other

If your partner is saying that they’re completely committed to this change, that they want to grow,

you need to understand that it’s not going to happen overnight for either of you. They may still be

holding onto old thought and action patterns because it’s what they’ve known for a long time, it’s

going to take time to get passed it. If there’s healing that needs to happen, it is not going to happen

in an instant. Don’t allow the fact that things won’t completely change this very minute make you

believe that your partner is not trying. Give them the benefit of the doubt. Just keep loving them,

and keep forging ahead!

One more thing: really work on creating the best friendship you can with your partner. If you both

can keep laughing and sharing things together, sex will be much easier. If you continue to make a

point to have fun together, then you’ll be easily able to talk to each other about the important

stuff, and when you get worried about the sexual aspect of your relationship, it’s easier to bring

up because there’s a strong foundation of friendship already there to support you.

 

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Getting Wet Sexually – Tips To Blow Her Mind In Bed


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Getting Wet Sexually

Getting wet sexually for a woman might often times be a difficult thing to do,

especially if she is not in the mood for having sex. But even so, are there

things that you can do to help her getting wet sexually ? If you doesn’t

know how to handle love making skills properly your lover will become

bored and not satisfied in the sexual relationship.

I am pleased to say there, but she will still need to be in the mood, so let’s focus on that for the first

part of this article. As I mentioned before in the other sex related articles, you need to give your

partner time to relax and enjoy a long foreplay before you can even start to engage in any sexual

activity. Keep this rule in mind at all times, and yes, it is an unwritten rule of the art of love making.

Getting wet sexually or getting aroused is, as I mentioned above, pretty difficult for woman. You

need to know what she needs from a sexual point of view in order to get aroused. Again I say,

romance and communication is the key, but there are a couple of other things that you can do

in order to get her aroused.

The first thing you can do is surprise her and take her out for a romantic dinner at a nice restaurant.

Make sure everything is perfect and that you don’t mention a thing about sex. She will probably get

the message, and even if she doesn’t, her brain will surely do and start preparing her body for the

pleasures to come. Now, don’t get happy yet because she is not wet and you can’t cheat by

“accidentally” spilling the wine in her lap. So let’s move on and see what else you can do.

After you get home from the restaurant make sure that the house is prepared and try arranging a

nice walk way into the bedroom. Use flower petals, preferably roses. Have the Barry White CD ready

in the stereo and make sure that the sweet red wine is already opened and ready to be enjoyed by

the two of you. Now, you can engage in foreplay , try running your fingertips gently all over her

body or you can use a light feather to run over her erogenous zone.

If none of this works and she still isn’t getting ready, you can try lubrication, of course, she agrees

to this. Forcing her will not result in anything good and I think it is also a little bit illegal, so you will

want to avoid that as much as possible. The  There are a lot of lubricants available on the market,

you will want to use a water based one. Maybe try a special one that tingles a little, see if she likes it.

Even with lubrication she will not necessarily get an orgasm. If she didn’t get sexual wet

naturally it means that her mind is not focusing on sex and that she will probably not have an

orgasm this time. Getting wet sexually without using lubrication is the result that you want to aim

for.

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Dealing With Female Sexual Dysfunction – 5 Mistakes To Avoid


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Dealing with female sexual dysfunction should be your top priority if you want your lady to feel good around you, especially when the two of you are in bed. The therapy and treatments for this dysfunction certainly need to involve you as well. We are not going to tell you what you need to do, because you can figure that out for yourself, we will tell you what not to do when dealing with female sexual issue.

The following are 5 things that you need to avoid at all costs, especially if you want a normal woman next to you and maybe have the ability to give her orgasms in the future. These ideas are mostly related to intercourse, so they are more the things that you need to avoid in order to avoid sexual disorders  in your partner.

The first thing you never have to do in bed is ejaculate without letting her know. If you do that and she gets caught by surprise she might not enjoy it and every time you will have sex she will think about that and the intercourse will be bad for both of you. Remember this, always tell her if you are going to ejaculate, regardless of where you are going to do this.

Another thing you might want to consider in terms of preventive therapy is letting her know that you are feeling good. I am sure that you love to hear her when she likes it, she would definitely love to hear from you as well when you are feeling good. Dealing with female sexual dysfunction starts with the brain, so encourage her and let her know that you are enjoying it.

Going at it too fast, at least at the beginning might feel great for you, but there are two very obvious problems to this. One is that you will probably not be able to last long enough if you keep the speed up and two, she will experience pain because her vagina is not yet stretched properly. So be patient, stop going at it like a mad man and take it slowly at first. Even she usually likes it fast and rough, no woman enjoys pain, so do it slowly at first for a couple of minutes and after that you can pleasure the way you want.

Mixing your sex life with porn scenes is never a good, at least if you know that she doesn’t like it. Some women enjoy extreme sex positions and being controlled or even abused, but most of them are happy with normal, soft sex. Talk about this at another time, when you are not planning to have intercourse and see what she thinks about it.

Never forget to kiss her. She is not a piece of meat and even if you started already to engage in intercourse, she still needs feedback from you to keep her vagina lubricated. Dealing with female sexual dysfunction can be difficult, but try following these rules when you are in bed and you can actually avoid it altogether.

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